A Tribute to "Jules"- President's Day 2013

I now understand the excitment of a fabric sale... President's day meant a huge fabric sale at the local fabric store. Things somewhere between 30-50% AND the best part is they take coupons from OTHER places too. I had an extra 15%. Sooooo, that means that my $60 worth of fabric was only $25!!!! LOVE!

These are my Spoils!

Now, Ya'll are probably wondering "Who's Jules?" Well, Jules entered my life in my first year of college. She's been with me ever since and I dusted her off just for this occasion.

Meet Jules:

Isn't she BEAUTIFUL? It's been a while since we have worked on a project together. The past two years of my life I have been hard at work being a dedicated Mom. I have realized that the one to suffer has been my cute little 3 year old Abigal. I decided to be a stay at home Mom and dedicate my time to helping her be the best person she can be. (Sorry, Random side note)

Now! On to the PROJECTS! First, I found this on pinterest. It's a blanket that sits in the carseat and you can swaddle your new born. Here are some shots:

Outside:

Inside: (Minkey Fabric)


Poor Jules worked hard tonight. I will be honest. I'm not perfect in my sewing talent yet, but I am getting there. Jules has seen me through the thick and the thin. She's been there through the most terrible projects and the best. Hopefully there will be more of her to come. Now, the box behind her is filled with mending that my beautiful family has decided they needed done........ I now will be mending until my next project which is going to be an ADORABLE tunic for my little Brooklyn..... (And maybe something similar for Abby later!) Will post again soon!

Tempers-A mother's worst nightmare

Okay, maybe not worst nightmare, but it can be if you aren't sure how to deal with that crazy look in your child's eyes and their loud screaming for attention.

I thought about taking a video of my child during this time to show just how dramatic life can seem to a 3 year old.  Then I am reminded of a video a few months back about s child who refused to put her dishes in the sink without a fit. The parents were judged about how they didn't raise their child right, blah, blah, blah. You mothers our there know she's loved and the poor thing was just tired and didn't understand or it's just her age and she was trying to show her "authority."

This is the case of my young and beautiful three year old. She throws her biggest fits to get what she wants and to try to figure out her boundaries. Somedays I feel like all I have listened to is screaming and there have been days I've lovingly locked myself in another room so I can think properly. Does that make me a bad parent? Does my 3 year old throwing fits make me a terrible mother?

In the past, I probably wouldn't have given myself a break when I have asked those hard questions. I have come to realize something very important in child's life. Abigal was a nicu baby and had a very independent personality from the very beginning. Refused to breastfeed and at just eight weeks I worked again. For whatever reason as a newborn she didn't want to be cuddled by me, she loves her daddy. For some reason, her and I never grew a strong bond until years later. Basically, she is very independent and her fits used to be because she couldn't figure out how to do something. Since Brooklyn entered this world Abigal's fits are more geared to mommy and daddy not doing everything for her like they do for Brooklyn.  Typical behavior.

Most of the time I just let her scream and throw her fits and I just ignore her behavior until she stops. There are some where this tactic doesn't work. I just try to communicate with her to try to stop the unreasonable behavior. Then there are the occasional ones where the only course of action is time alone in her bedroom until she can calm down.

Am I bad mother? Heavens no!! Do I feel like I am sometimes?  Especially during her tempers, yes. Even during those I am still not a bad mother. I just have a really passionate and independent girl. Those are also her best qualities and I hope that through those years of listening to the loudest screaming you can imagine that I can instill confidence in her life. That she will know without a doubt that her parents love her and that she is a beautiful girl with wonderful qualities.

From an extremely colicy newborn to terrible threes we can make it through. Even if we need to shut ourselves in a different room for just thirty seconds of peace and quiet.

Happy birthday Mom

Okay. Her birthday isn't for about a month, but I need to be ahead now that I have two people to care of. I made this for my mommy.
I got the idea from pinterest. I think it turned out great!

Check-up

Brooklyn weighs 12lbs 6oz 80%, 23 1/2  inches long 90%. Head circumference is 15 inches 40%. she's so tall! Currently wearing 0-3 months size and they are pretty tight. Nurses every three and a half hours now and she will sleep six hours straight at night. Still sleeps next to Mom. They grow up fast!

Two months!

They go by so fast!
Brooklyn is looking great and very chunky. She's found her voice and wouldn't take a bottle. I was forced to stay home with her and Abigal, but I don't mind. Here is Abby, such a proud sister

 Brooklyn is getting big and beautiful too!

So happy to be a stay at home mommy now!